The most common misconception about witnessing is that it begins with “what to say.” In fact, any truly effective, authentically Christ-like witness begins with listening,_not_with trying to say something. Until you have won a hearing by demonstrating that you are a caring listener, the other person is unlikely to listen carefully to what you have to say. Listening achieves several important steps in personal ministry. It is an unselfish act that clearly shows the grace of Christ. It gathers